Please if it's a guy who's reading this please tell me if the guy is mad or offended... Here's the story:
Friday night, at my Kung Fu course, a guy "friend" sat beside me and asked me why I don't come anymore on saturday morning to the Kung fu course, and I anwsered that I have good friends at my Taekwondo course on saturday morning... He told me "What about us? Aren't I your friend?!" And... um its kinda embarassing to say this but I told him he's not... (I was TOTALLY serious) sweatdrop and he turned his head away, but I tried to justify myself and tell him why I don't consider him like a friend, but he didn't talked to me for the rest of the course... sweatdrop Do you think he's mad against me??? And should I say sorry to him???
Hope somebody will anwser me before tonight, cause I'm going to my Kung Fu course TONIGHT...
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hello whoever is reading this!
I am just a typical College girl living in Montreal (Quebec).
I am vietnamese and japanese (have japanese blood from my grandmother). I am going to College Saint-Laurent. Nice to meet you!
I am just a typical College girl living in Montreal (Quebec).
I am vietnamese and japanese (have japanese blood from my grandmother). I am going to College Saint-Laurent. Nice to meet you!
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A male will be friends with a female only for one purpose... to see if it would be taken further, that they would be an item. But the problem is that the male would not tell the female of this purpose, until she responds back with a loving nature, then, both parties would discuss whether or not if there would be a date, and then be taken to the next level, (ie Boyfriend, Girlfriend...) and possibly further.
If no such action is relayed back to the male, then he appears to be affended, and he attempts to break the relationship before it even started.
In this case, he seemed to be infatuated with you, whether for good or ill, and he wanted to make sure you felt the same, in which case, you shot him down. In My Opinion, and I could be wrong, but if you and him were taking the same class for a long time, and chatted, then he would feel that all of his time being with you would be for naught, and that he would feel upset. If he speaks with you still with the same tone as before the event that took place above, then a "Just Friends" approach has been taken. If he doesn't speak to you, or with a different tone then before and with less, then, yes, he was infatuated with you, and you felt no such thing with him, and with that, he'll spend his time with another female.
But I could be wrong.
Wishing you Luck and Hope,
Robin J. Killian