Well, how do I say this nicely. I love my family. I would do anything for them and I have. I have helped them out no matter what was going on with me. Then, the last few days, my sister as been bothering me. I dont know what I should do. Talk to her or not. Part of my family says to talk to her and part of them tell me not to. Then something bothered me today that she said and did. My grandma is having surgery on the 19th. to have a defib put in for her heart. My sister and I know this. Well then, since the 15th, she says she hasn't been feeling good, and has had pain in her chest. And started to rub her chest like she had the operation. Then told me she thought it might be because grandma had her surgery. IT'S NOT TILL THE 19TH!!!! She knows that I have to watch my sugar intake so I don't get diabeties and I don't gain alot of weight. So every now and then she tells me she is shaking and feels her sugar is high. HELLO!!!!! Low sugar = shaking. Tonight, she got into it with my inlaws and said one was disrespecting her house. Yes, she helps to pay rent, and helps with the bills, but so do I and I cook and clean and keep everyone together, plus take care of kids and all my personal stuff as well. She hardly does anything. I have asked her to do things in the past and she does them sloppy, but I still say thanks. I tell her to take food to work and she passes. I try to help her as much as possible and right now, backing her and her art, which the family does not want her to do.
Oh God, what do I do. Do I tell her to take a bath everyday, and to take the meal I have cooked with her to work, ask her not to disrespect my guest in this house as I respect her friends. Tell her she is getting so much wrong with the medical issues she has. Do I keep supporting her work and defending her to the family.
Or do I sit down and tell her, watch her get mad and not handle the problems with any thought or concerns? Do I just let her be her and keep blocking hers and mines relationship from being close and keep moving away from her? confused
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