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Mr. Right?
Well first off, if you want to find something/someone, You have to be looking.
Theres a lot of people in this world and half of them are guys. If would probally take a lifetime to find the soulmate of your dreams. Ive asked the question many times and im kinda surprised to hear someone think the same thing as me. Ive dated plenty of people and found out I liked nothing about them. Then theres some people that seemed so perfect but they were already taken. Those are the breaks in life though and though I accept them, im not exactly sure how to deal with these problems.
I don't think anyone can be perfect though. I mean sure ill gladly open the door for a girl, pay the tab, take her coat and pull her chair out for her, im just an honorable person. But then again some girls dont like that...but I dont know that...untill its too late. Then when I find the girl who does enjoy it...its probally one of those girls who thinks video games are for kids and that anime is a waste of time. She probally wants me to be a body builder and a doctor at the same time as well. While at the same time the girl that got turned off by the fact I did all those things for her loved everything I loved. So in the end there was a two sided coin I couldent get right side up. Thats where relationships have to grow and you "both" have to adapt. So in the end thats why its almost impossible to find Mr. or Mrs. Right. It would have to be a miracle...but maybe someday you can come pretty close.
My advice really is to just keep looking, hang loose and if you find someone you truelly want to be with, always talk to them. The more you know about them and the more they know about you, the more you two can try to change and be the perfect someone for each other.
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