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On July 22nd I was in route to Washington , DC > > for a business trip. > > It was all so very ordinary, until we landed in > > Denver for a plane > > change. As I collected my belongings from the > > overhead bin, an > > announcement was made for Mr.. Lloyd Glenn to > > see the United Customer Service Representative immediately. > > > > I thought nothing of it until I reached the > > door to leave the plane and I heard a gentleman asking every > > male if he were Mr. Glenn. At this point I knew something > > was wrong and my heart sunk. > > > > When I got off the plane a solemn-faced young > > man came toward me and said, Mr.. Glenn, there is an > > emergency at your home. I do not know what the emergency is, > > or who is involved, but I will take you to the phone so you > > can call the hospital.' > > > > My heart was now pounding, but the will to be > > calm took over. > > Woodenly, I followed this stranger to the > > distant telephone where I called the number he gave me for > > the Mission Hospital . My call was put through to the trauma > > center where I learned that my three-year-old son had been > > trapped underneath the automatic garage door for several > > minutes, and that when my wife had found him he was dead. > > CPR had been performed by a neighbor, who is a doctor, and > > the paramedics had continued the treatment as Brian was > > transported to the hospital. > > > > By the time of my call, Brian was revived and > > they believed he would live, but they did not know how much > > damage had been done to his brain, nor to his heart. They > > explained that the door had completely closed on his little > > sternum right over his heart. He had been severely crushed. > > After speaking with the medical staff, my wife sounded > > worried but not hysterical, and I took comfort in her > > calmness. > > > > The return flight seemed to last forever, but > > finally I arrived at the hospital six hours after the garage > > door had come down. When I walked into the intensive care > > unit, nothing could have prepared me to see my little son > > laying so still on a great big bed with tubes and monitors > > everywhere. He was on a respirator. I glanced at my wife who > > stood and tried to give me a reassuring smile. It all seemed > > like a terrible dream. I was filled-in with the details and > > given a guarded prognosis. Brian was going to live, and the > > preliminary tests indicated that his heart was OK, two > > miracles in and of themselves. But only time would tell if > > his brain received any damage. > > > > Throughout the seemingly endless hours, my wife > > was calm. She felt that Brian would eventually be all right. > > I hung on to her words and faith > > like a lifeline. All that night and the next > > day Brian remained unconscious. It seemed like forever since > > I had left for my business trip the day before. > > > > Finally at two o'clock that afternoon, our > > son regained consciousness and sat up uttering the most > > beautiful words I have ever heard spoken. He said, > > 'Daddy hold me' and he reached for me with his > > little arms. > > > > [TEAR BREAK...smile] > > > > By the next day he was pronounced as having no > > neurological or > > physical deficits, and the story of his > > miraculous survival spread > > throughout the hospital You cannot imagine, we > > took Brian home, > > we felt a unique reverence for the life and > > love of our Heavenly > > Father that comes to those who brush death so > > closely. > > > > In the days that followed there was a special > > spirit about our home. Our two older children were much > > closer to their little brother. My wife and I were much > > closer to each other, and all of us were very close as a > > whole family Life took on a less stressful pace. Perspective > > seemed to be more focused, and balance much easier to gain > > and maintain We felt deeply blessed. Our gratitude was truly > > profound. > > > > The story is not over (smile)! > > > > Almost a month later to the day of the > > accident, Brian awoke from his afternoon nap and said, > > 'Sit down Mommy.. I have something to tell you.' At > > this time in his life, Brian usually spoke in small phrases, > > so to say a large sentence surprised my wife. She sat down > > with him on his bed, and he began his sacred and remarkable > > story. > > > > 'Do you remember when I got stuck under the > > garage door? Well, it was so heavy and it hurt really bad. I > > called to you, but you couldn't hear me.. I started to > > cry, but then it hurt too bad. And then the > > 'birdies' came.' > > > > 'The birdies?' my wife asked puzzled. > > > > 'Yes,' he replied. 'The birdies > > made a whooshing sound and flew into the garage. They took > > care of me.' > > > > 'They did?' > > > > 'Yes,' he said. 'One of the birdies > > came and got you. She came to tell you 'I got stuck > > under the door.' A sweet reverent feeling filled the > > room. The spirit was so strong and yet lighter than air. My > > wife realized that a three-year-old had no concept of death > > and spirits, so he was referring to the beings who came to > > him from beyond as 'birdies' because they were up in > > the air like birds that fly.. 'What did the birdies look > > like?' she asked. > > > > Brian answered, 'They were so beautiful. > > They were dressed in white, all white. Some of them had > > green and white. But some of them had on just white.' > > > > 'Did they say anything?' > > > > 'Yes,' he answered. > > 'They told me the baby would be all > > right.' > > > > 'The baby?' my wife asked confused. > > > > Brian answered. 'The baby laying on the > > garage floor.' He went on, 'You came out and opened > > the garage door and ran to the baby. You told the baby to > > stay and not leave.' > > > > My wife nearly collapsed upon hearing this, for > > she had indeed gone and knelt beside Brian's body and > > seeing his crushed chest whispered, 'Don't leave us > > Brian, pl ease stay if you can.' As she listened to > > Brian telling her the words she had spoken, she realized > > that the spirit had left His body and was looking down from > > above on this little lifeless form.. 'Then what > > happened?' she asked. > > > > 'We went on a trip,' he said, 'far, > > far away.' He grew agitated trying to say the things he > > didn't seem to have the words for. My wife tried to calm > > and comfort him, and let him know it would be okay. He > > struggled with wanting to tell something that obviously was > > very important to him, but finding the words was difficult. > > > > 'We flew so fast up in the air. They're > > so pretty Mommy,' he added. > > 'And there are lots and lots of > > birdies.' My wife was stunned. Into her mind the sweet > > comforting spirit enveloped her more soundly, but with an > > urgency she had never before known. Brian went on to tell > > her that the 'birdies' had told him that he had to > > come back and tell everyone about the 'birdies.' He > > said they brought him back to the house and that a big fire > > truck, and an ambulance were there. A man was bringing the > > baby out on a white bed and he tried to tell the man that > > the baby would be okay. The story went on for an hour. > > > > He taught us that 'birdies' were always > > with us, but we don't see them because we look with our > > eyes and we don't hear them because we listen with our > > ears. But they are always there, you can only see them in > > here (he put his hand over his heart). They whisper the > > things to help us to do what is right because they love us > > so much. Brian continued, stating, 'I have a plan, > > Mommy. You have a plan.. Daddy has a plan. Everyone has a > > plan. We must all live our plan and keep our promises. The > > birdies help us to do that cause they love us so much.' > > > > In the weeks that followed, he often came to us > > and told all, or part of it, again and again. Always the > > story remained the same. The details were never changed or > > out of order. A few times he added further bits of > > information and clarified the message he had already > > delivered. It never ceased to amaze us how he could tell > > such detail and speak beyond his ability when he talked > > about his birdies. > > > > Everywhere he went, he told strangers about the > > 'birdies.' Surprisingly, no one ever looked at him > > strangely when he did this... Rather, they always got a > > softened look on their face > > and smiled. Needless to say, we have not been > > the same ever since that day, and I pray we never will be. > > > > You have just been sent an Angel to watch over > > you. Some people come into our lives and quickly go...Some > > people become friends and stay a while...leaving beautiful > > footprints on our hearts .. and we are never quite the same > > because we have made a good friend!! > > > > Yesterday is history. Tomorrow a mystery Today > > is a gift. That's why it's called the present! Live > > and savor every moment...this is not a dress rehearsal! THIS > > IS A SPECIAL GUARDIAN ANGEL..
inushiba2 · Fri Jan 09, 2009 @ 06:53pm · 0 Comments |
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