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Well, about twice this week, I have been having these weird dreams of being a Lesbien. >__________>

Honestly, ever since I was 10 years old, I started being attracted to certain girls... I even kissed a girl at that age... O.o

Now, only ONCE in my life I have ever been... How do I put it...? Intimate with another girl? This happened when I was in high school still... We didn't go ALL the way of course, but we kinda got close before I made us stop because I felt that it was wrong. ._.

Well, getting back to these dreams...

The first Lesbien dream that I had this week was about being a girlfriend of a female Gaian friend (I won't say her name, but she is VERY dear to me, but I do not feel this way about her AT all... sweatdrop ). The dream didn't get sexual at all. I remember that we sat on a couch and we were eating something, but I knew that we were together... That we were dating or something. It was weird.

Worst of all, IRL she is like... 16 and I am now 22! Gaaah, no! Underage bait! gonk

I kinda brushed off that dream once I woke up, didn't really take it seriously. ^^;

Now, the 2nd Lesbien dream I had this week got REALLY intense. I don't remember alot of this either, but I had felt the desire and NEED to sleep with a few different women. These women didn't really exist though... They were created in my dream.

I remember one of these women being kind to me, saying that I was welcome to be intimate with her at ANY time... She was also older than me, but she was a little attractive.

Then this other woman (who was DROP DEAD GORGEOUS) was just a few years younger than me and she slept with me too, but rejected me completely the next day in the dream, not wanting anything to do with me. gonk

Well, that certain woman made me realize after I had woken up that... I was grateful for not giving my virginity to any woman OR man before I met my husband. That I would be haunted by sheer and utter regret if I ever did go all the way with anyone else, just for the sexual experience...

When I was growing up, I always had the goal of waiting till I was married to give up my virginity. It was the way I was tought growing up and it was a personal and a challenging goal that I wanted to accomplish.

I almost made the goal, but thankfully, I had given my virginity to the man that I eventually married. I am VERY thankful that he was the only one that I have ever been sexually intimate with. ^_^ heart

Well, today, I got up the courage to bring up these dreams to my husband... And he said something SO wise to me...

He told me that it was fine that I was having dreams like that. He said that it is all right to fantasize like that, as long as I didn't really ACT on those fantasies in REAL life, which I have NEVER done. ^_^

I am so grateful for his understanding and for him enlightening me on this issue. I was scared that I might of subconciously wanted to be with girls suddenly, but I know now that these are just fantasies that I will probably always am going to have. ^^

Well, there was a serious bit about my real life. Think of it however you want, but it is the way I am. 3nodding