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britt (s0urlim3y) is available 7:46 pm
saigoto 7:46 pm
(7:46:36 PM): yo
britt 7:46 pm
(7:46:58 PM): hey akil!
(7:46:59 PM): =D
saigoto 7:47 pm
(7:47:12 PM): what's up?
britt 7:47 pm
(7:47:20 PM): just... tired
(7:47:22 PM): Dx
(7:47:24 PM): you?
saigoto 7:47 pm
(7:47:25 PM): lol
(7:47:33 PM): relaxing till dinner is ready
(7:47:45 PM): and going to work on psych hw later
(7:47:52 PM): you back in albany yet?
britt 7:49 pm
(7:49:13 PM): nope!
(7:49:15 PM): tomorrow!
saigoto 7:49 pm
(7:49:31 PM): don't you have class tomorrow though?
britt 7:49 pm
(7:49:43 PM): nope!
(7:49:47 PM): no class tomorrow!
(7:49:49 PM): =d
(7:49:51 PM): =D
saigoto 7:49 pm
(7:49:56 PM): WTF?!
(7:49:59 PM): DX
britt 7:50 pm
(7:50:14 PM): yes i know
(7:50:14 PM): xD
(7:50:17 PM): be jealousssss
(7:50:18 PM): xD
saigoto 7:50 pm
(7:50:20 PM): We get the crappy weekend off!
(7:50:30 PM): and you guys get the nicer weekend
(7:50:36 PM): and more days?!
(7:50:41 PM): SOOOOOO NOT FAIR!
britt 7:50 pm
(7:50:47 PM): albany is just awesomer
(7:50:48 PM): xD
saigoto 7:50 pm
(7:50:55 PM): can't argue with that
(7:50:56 PM): >_.
(7:51:07 PM): *>_>
britt 7:51 pm
(7:51:48 PM): sorry i'm so boring
(7:51:49 PM): xD
(7:51:51 PM): i mean
(7:51:52 PM): Dx
(7:51:54 PM): I'm so tired
(7:51:56 PM): and I feel sick
(7:51:57 PM): Dx
saigoto 7:52 pm
(7:52:06 PM): you're NEVER boring
(7:52:11 PM): son't worry about it
(7:52:15 PM): *don't
britt 7:52 pm
(7:52:19 PM): I can be pretty boring
(7:52:19 PM): xD
saigoto 7:52 pm
(7:52:30 PM): when?
britt 7:52 pm
(7:52:38 PM): since my idea of a good time is laying in my bed watching TV and talking all day
(7:52:38 PM): xD
saigoto 7:52 pm
(7:52:45 PM): thats not too bad
(7:52:52 PM): so long as it's with friends
(7:53:06 PM): it gets boring if its by yourself
britt 7:54 pm
(7:54:04 PM): thats true!
(7:54:05 PM): O-:
(7:54:14 PM): I'e turned into a lazy bum!
(7:54:14 PM): xD
saigoto 7:54 pm
(7:54:18 PM): lol
(7:54:31 PM): you mean this weekend?
(7:54:43 PM): it's vacation, who cares?
britt 7:56 pm
(7:56:05 PM): no, i mean...
(7:56:07 PM): in general
(7:56:09 PM): xD
saigoto 7:56 pm
(7:56:45 PM): I've been getting lazier too
(7:57:02 PM): but you don't feel like doing anything when you're in school
britt 7:59 pm
(7:59:10 PM): hell no
(7:59:11 PM): Dx
(7:59:16 PM): I dont wanna do anything!
(7:59:18 PM): I hate my classes~!
(7:59:31 PM): I'm already thinking in next semester
(7:59:34 PM): lol!!
saigoto 7:59 pm
(7:59:37 PM): lol
(7:59:46 PM): I just want summer to come already!
britt 8:00 pm
(8:00:09 PM): ME TOO!
(8:00:13 PM): make it come faster!
(8:00:13 PM): Dx
saigoto 8:00 pm
(8:00:29 PM): Iit's good tha its nice out again
(8:00:35 PM): *it's
(8:01:09 PM): We actually hangout outside sometimes at occc now
britt 8:02 pm
(8:02:05 PM): thats always good
(8:02:06 PM): (-:
(8:02:16 PM): I cant wait to be back in albany hanging in the sun and tanning
(8:02:19 PM): =D
saigoto 8:02 pm
(8:02:29 PM): why do you and becky wanna tan so much?
(8:02:42 PM): I don't get whats so appealing about tannning
britt 8:04 pm
(8:04:07 PM): well
(8:04:14 PM): we like looking tan
(8:04:18 PM): but what we really like
saigoto 8:05 pm
(8:05:05 PM): I know you're not going for guido tan
(8:05:09 PM): but I still don
britt 8:05 pm
(8:05:12 PM): is laying in the sun and reading
saigoto 8:05 pm
(8:05:12 PM): *dpn
britt 8:05 pm
(8:05:14 PM): xP
saigoto 8:05 pm
(8:05:22 PM): I can understand that
(8:05:38 PM): but I don't know why people like to tan
britt 8:13 pm
(8:13:38 PM): idk!
(8:13:43 PM): i hae no idea why either!
(8:13:45 PM): O-:
(8:13:52 PM): we just wanna
(8:13:52 PM): xD
(8:14:01 PM): it's probably society or something
saigoto 8:14 pm
(8:14:10 PM): idk
(8:14:17 PM): not necessarily a bad thing
(8:14:55 PM): You better now come back orange though
britt 8:16 pm
(8:16:33 PM): thats only a spray tan!
(8:16:33 PM): xD
(8:16:38 PM): or a fake tan!
saigoto 8:17 pm
(8:17:56 PM): might be just because I'm black
(8:18:05 PM): and I don't have to worry about it
(8:18:22 PM): but it's not like you're pale or anything
britt (s0urlim3y) is available 1:25 am
britt 1:25 am
(1:25:31 AM): =D
saigoto 1:25 am
(1:25:50 AM): wassup?
britt 1:25 am
(1:25:54 AM): nothing!
(1:25:55 AM): xD
(1:26:01 AM): facebook wars really
(1:26:02 AM): O-:
(1:26:06 AM): and studying for bio
(1:26:07 AM): DX
saigoto 1:26 am
(1:26:10 AM): with who?
(1:26:19 AM): was gonna ask you about that
britt 1:26 am
(1:26:20 AM): Alex, my roommate
(1:26:20 AM): xD
(1:26:27 AM): oh
(1:26:30 AM): you mean the bad ones?
(1:26:32 AM): O-:
saigoto 1:26 am
(1:26:38 AM): yeah
(1:26:41 AM): you were upset before
britt 1:27 am
(1:27:05 AM): I guess I just feel like eveyones mad at john and I for wanting to hang out with eachother as much as we can
(1:27:15 AM): and erik ranks of john so badly
(1:27:25 AM): not saying john cant handle himself
(1:27:27 AM): because he can
britt 1:27 am
(1:27:34 AM): just like... really people?
(1:27:35 AM): O-:<
saigoto 1:27 am
(1:27:56 AM): don't think he means it like that
(1:28:20 AM): just that john doesn't always hangout with us as often
britt 1:28 am
(1:28:33 AM): yeah I know
(1:28:35 AM): Dx
(1:28:41 AM): I told him akil!
(1:28:41 AM): Dx
(1:28:53 AM): I was like, go hangout and have fun! Dont worry about me!
(1:28:58 AM): but he doesnt listen
saigoto 1:29 am
(1:29:04 AM): it's not you
britt 1:29 am
(1:29:06 AM): he wants to be alone and depressed
(1:29:07 AM): Dx
saigoto 1:29 am
(1:29:13 AM): we know
(1:29:27 AM): he seems like he's depressed when you're not around
britt 1:29 am
(1:29:32 AM): i know. )-:
britt 1:29 am
(1:29:35 AM): Idk what to do
saigoto 1:29 am
(1:29:51 AM): it's not your fault
(1:30:13 AM): I guess he just needs to get over being away from you sometimes
(1:30:23 AM): he'll have to eventually
britt 1:30 am
(1:30:26 AM): he needs a hobby or something
saigoto 1:30 am
(1:30:33 AM): yeah
(1:30:40 AM): not to make fun of him
(1:30:54 AM): but we usually have to drag him with us to hangout
britt 1:31 am
(1:31:02 AM): thats not making fun of im
(1:31:05 AM): thats true
(1:31:12 AM): he just, is such a pessimist
saigoto 1:31 am
(1:31:18 AM): yeah
saigoto 1:31 am
(1:31:45 AM): I think he kinda whips himself sometimes
(1:31:56 AM): in that he's not as happy when you're not around
britt 1:32 am
(1:32:06 AM): yeah, but it's not cool for everyone to point it out
(1:32:07 AM): Dx
saigoto 1:32 am
(1:32:21 AM): like how?
britt 1:32 am
(1:32:33 AM): like, john says he was out with jordan and erik
(1:32:46 AM): and thatthey just started talking to him about things
(1:32:55 AM): like how he's not friends with vinny anymore
(1:32:59 AM): and how he's whipped by me
(1:33:17 AM): eriks like: Oh yeah, john would rather hang out with britt then spend the weekend with the guys
(1:33:21 AM): and even once
britt 1:33 am
(1:33:49 AM): bianca said that she's glad she spends some time with marcus over the break, unlike SOME people who can hang out everyday
(1:33:50 AM): )-:
saigoto 1:34 am
(1:34:11 AM): don't take it that way
(1:34:21 AM): we all want him to be happy with us too
(1:34:36 AM): we don't want him to be depressed when you're away
(1:34:42 AM): we want him to hang out with us
(1:34:49 AM): maybe they said it the wrong way
(1:35:09 AM): but it's not like we're making fun of him
britt 1:35 am
(1:35:14 AM): it sounded like, they're angry at john and my relationship and the fact we like being together whenever we can
(1:35:31 AM): because I dont get to see him for months sometimes
saigoto 1:35 am
(1:35:50 AM): Thats not what bothers us
(1:36:00 AM): what bothers us it the times during regular school
(1:36:18 AM): when he sometimes won't come out with us
(1:36:25 AM): when we ask him to
(1:36:52 AM): I'm sure they don't have problems with you guys spending time together
britt 1:37 am
(1:37:01 AM): well, it sounds like it
(1:37:02 AM): Dx
(1:37:10 AM): I know, john should hang out and have fun
(1:37:13 AM): but I cant force him
(1:37:15 AM): Dx
saigoto 1:37 am
(1:37:18 AM): I know
(1:37:33 AM): but I can assure you we have no problem with him spending time with you
(1:37:46 AM): but when he doesn't hangout with us sometimes
saigoto 1:37 am
(1:37:58 AM): it kinda makes it seem that he would rather be with you than us
(1:38:25 AM): thats probably what everyone is getting at
britt 1:38 am
(1:38:56 AM): well, they could just say that instead of being dicks about it
(1:39:02 AM): it makes me really mad
saigoto 1:39 am
(1:39:31 AM): you're taking it the wrong way
(1:39:47 AM): we just want to spend more time with john
saigoto 1:40 am
(1:40:05 AM): like I said before
(1:40:35 AM): when he doesn't always hangout with us, it looks like he doesn't want to be with us
(1:40:43 AM): though that might not be the case
(1:40:47 AM): thats what it looks like
britt 1:41 am
(1:41:10 AM): maybe you guys should ask him about it
(1:41:14 AM): instead of assuming
(1:41:14 AM): Dx
saigoto 1:41 am
(1:41:34 AM): ask him about not hanging out with us sometimes?
(1:41:37 AM): idk
(1:41:45 AM): seems like that might just turn into a fighjt
(1:41:48 AM): *fight
saigoto 1:42 am
(1:42:23 AM): but if he won't listen to you
(1:42:28 AM): he might not listen to us
britt 1:42 am
(1:42:33 AM): hmm, true
(1:42:39 AM): Sometimes, he's so backwards
(1:42:45 AM): like... he doesnt want to hang out
(1:42:57 AM): but he feels really out of the group and unwanted
saigoto 1:43 am
(1:43:10 AM): why?
(1:43:15 AM): we want him to be with us
(1:43:31 AM): we just feel that he's the one that is being unwilling sometimes
(1:43:37 AM): it's the opposite
(1:43:52 AM): this is all just a miscommunication
britt 1:44 am
(1:44:36 AM): thats usually the cause of most problems
(1:44:36 AM): xP
saigoto 1:44 am
(1:44:44 AM): thats what this is
(1:44:53 AM): but please don't get mad at everyone
britt 1:44 am
(1:44:55 AM): you must feel left out slot too akil
(1:44:55 AM): Dx
(1:45:00 AM): alot*
saigoto 1:45 am
(1:45:01 AM): yeah kinda
(1:45:02 AM): lol
britt 1:45 am
(1:45:09 AM): i never did before
(1:45:14 AM): but I do now I'm in albany
(1:45:14 AM): xP
(1:45:28 AM): I'm just annoyed
(1:45:41 AM): i dont know anymore! people seemed very twofaced
saigoto 1:45 am
(1:45:47 AM): You'll never be left out
britt 1:45 am
(1:45:51 AM): and plus, I'm not there to see it firsthand, so...
(1:46:05 AM): i dont know I feel a little awkward around people
(1:46:06 AM): Dx
saigoto 1:46 am
(1:46:13 AM): believe me
(1:46:27 AM): we wouldn't have this problem if we didn't care about you guys
saigoto 1:46 am
(1:46:41 AM): they say these things because we want to see you guys
(1:46:44 AM): thats all
(1:46:55 AM): not to be mean, or to make fun of you guys
britt 1:47 am
(1:47:26 AM): i know i know
(1:47:31 AM): but sometimes thats how it feels
(1:47:34 AM): like we're drifting
(1:47:51 AM): and then like... i'm not sure what you guys are thinking
(1:47:59 AM): but once, I would know it instantly
(1:48:04 AM): because you're all my close friends
saigoto 1:48 am
(1:48:08 AM): yeah
(1:48:13 AM): but don't worry
(1:48:18 AM): if we didn't like you
(1:48:27 AM): we wouldn't talk to you
(1:48:35 AM): or make such a big deal about seeing you
britt 1:49 am
(1:49:27 AM): well, when you put it that way
(1:49:28 AM): xP
(1:49:38 AM): but people dont talk to me much anymore
saigoto 1:49 am
(1:49:58 AM): not even on facebook?
britt 1:50 am
(1:50:13 AM): nope!
(1:50:15 AM): not really!
(1:50:19 AM): cept dylan!
(1:50:20 AM): O-:
(1:50:27 AM): and idk what to say to anyone
(1:50:27 AM): Dx
saigoto 1:50 am
(1:50:48 AM): just start a conversation like you do with me
britt 1:51 am
(1:51:06 AM): bleh
(1:51:11 AM): you're easy to talk to!
(1:51:12 AM): O-:
(1:51:22 AM): other people give one word answers!
(1:51:23 AM): O-:
britt 1:51 am
(1:51:28 AM): or go... 'lol'
(1:51:31 AM): and thats it!
(1:51:32 AM): O-:<
(1:51:38 AM): and I'm like... well... very good convo!
(1:51:39 AM): xD
saigoto 1:52 am
(1:52:07 AM): lol
(1:52:11 AM): like who?
britt 1:52 am
(1:52:20 AM): erik sometimes
(1:52:21 AM): O-:
(1:52:25 AM): and adelia
(1:52:25 AM): Dx
saigoto 1:52 am
(1:52:29 AM): I thought you talked to erik a lot though
britt 1:52 am
(1:52:33 AM): nope!
saigoto 1:52 am
(1:52:44 AM): I can maybe see adelia though
britt 1:53 am
(1:53:15 AM): erik and i talk sometimes
(1:53:16 AM): O-:
saigoto 1:54 am
(1:54:02 AM): well our group has lost some people
(1:54:19 AM): but you should meet some of the new people we've met
britt 1:55 am
(1:55:47 AM): I'm bad at meeting new people
saigoto 1:55 am
(1:55:59 AM): like hell!
saigoto 1:56 am
(1:56:15 AM): you seemed to be meeting people fine in albany
(1:56:39 AM): and I wouldn't introduce you to someone I thought you wouldn't get along with
britt 1:58 am
(1:58:42 AM): but I'll be awkward!
(1:58:43 AM): Dx
(1:58:45 AM): I'm shy!!
(1:58:46 AM): O-:<
saigoto 1:58 am
(1:58:54 AM): -____-
(1:58:59 AM): NO YOU"RE NOT
(1:59:08 AM): you're more outgoing than I am
britt 1:59 am
(1:59:08 AM): AM SO!!
(1:59:12 AM): I am bad at meeting people!
(1:59:13 AM): O-:
(1:59:16 AM): I swear!!
(1:59:16 AM): xD
(1:59:22 AM): Unless they're more shy then me!
(1:59:22 AM): O-:
(2:00:11 AM): akil!
(2:00:14 AM): more aim tomorrow!
(2:00:20 AM): I have a bio test in the morning!
(2:00:21 AM): Dx
(2:00:22 AM): xP
(2:00:25 AM): Good Night!
(2:00:25 AM): =D
saigoto 2:07 am
(2:07:00 AM): night
(2:07:05 AM): sorry for the late reply
britt 2:07 am
(2:07:13 AM): it's all good! (-:
(2:07:16 AM): =D
saigoto 2:07 am
(2:07:16 AM): lol
(2:07:24 AM): I keep forgetting to text you
britt 2:07 am
(2:07:28 AM): thats rude!!
(2:07:29 AM): O-:<
(2:07:30 AM): thats ok
(2:07:33 AM): I forget too
(2:07:33 AM): xD
saigoto 2:07 am
(2:07:42 AM): lol
(2:08:14 AM): better head to bed soon too
britt 2:10 am
(2:10:33 AM): i decided to study more
(2:10:34 AM): Dx
saigoto 2:13 am
(2:13:11 AM): lol
(2:13:23 AM): when do you plan to go to bed then?
britt 2:13 am
(2:13:30 AM): EVENTUALLY
(2:13:30 AM): xd
(2:13:31 AM): xD
(2:13:37 AM): my class is at 10:20
saigoto 2:13 am
(2:13:52 AM): so you've got time them
(2:14:00 AM): my class is at 8am
(2:14:19 AM): and I have to be up at 6 to get ready for my ride
britt 2:14 am
(2:14:45 AM): wtf!!
(2:14:46 AM): Dx
(2:14:49 AM): go to bed then!!
(2:14:50 AM): Dx
saigoto 2:15 am
(2:15:08 AM): lmao
(2:15:10 AM): fine
saigoto 2:15 am
(2:15:15 AM): in a bit...
(2:15:44 AM): >.>
britt 2:16 am
(2:16:52 AM): akiiiooooowww!
(2:16:53 AM): O-:<
saigoto 2:17 am
(2:17:07 AM): lol
(2:17:12 AM): kay mommy
saigoto 2:17 am
(2:17:21 AM): quick question though
(2:17:51 AM): when do you think is too soon to ask a girl out that you just started talking to?
britt 2:18 am
(2:18:02 AM): Oooooo!!!
(2:18:05 AM): Details!
(2:18:06 AM): =D
saigoto 2:18 am
(2:18:19 AM): -_
(2:18:29 AM): *-_-
(2:18:40 AM): girls ant these topics...
(2:18:43 AM): fine
(2:18:52 AM): it's this girl that I met before
(2:19:04 AM): but only started talking to kind of recently
(2:19:09 AM): you saw her once
saigoto 2:19 am
(2:19:26 AM): the girl who dylan brought to john's house
britt 2:19 am
(2:19:47 AM): Uhhh her name was....
(2:19:49 AM): dont tell me
(2:19:55 AM): uhhh...
(2:20:01 AM): something with an s?
(2:20:03 AM): O-:
saigoto 2:20 am
(2:20:06 AM): nope
britt 2:20 am
(2:20:08 AM): damn
(2:20:09 AM): Dx
saigoto 2:20 am
(2:20:09 AM): XD
britt 2:20 am
(2:20:10 AM): A!?
saigoto 2:20 am
(2:20:13 AM): yeah!
britt 2:20 am
(2:20:16 AM): Ok ok
(2:20:19 AM): I got this...
(2:20:25 AM): A... L?
saigoto 2:20 am
(2:20:29 AM): yeah
britt 2:20 am
(2:20:35 AM): Ok, idk the rest
(2:20:35 AM): Dx
(2:20:38 AM): allison?
saigoto 2:20 am
(2:20:45 AM): alyssa
britt 2:20 am
(2:20:48 AM): damn!!!
saigoto 2:20 am
(2:20:48 AM): close
britt 2:20 am
(2:20:49 AM): xD
saigoto 2:20 am
(2:20:51 AM): lol
britt 2:20 am
(2:20:51 AM): so close!
(2:21:01 AM): you want to ask her out?
(2:21:02 AM): xP
saigoto 2:21 am
(2:21:12 AM): idk
britt 2:21 am
(2:21:23 AM): you can ask her on a date
saigoto 2:21 am
(2:21:25 AM): CJ and dylan are saying I should do it
britt 2:21 am
(2:21:32 AM): it's like... the prelude to going out
(2:21:34 AM): and hey!
(2:21:39 AM): you dont have to listen to them!
saigoto 2:21 am
(2:21:53 AM): how would I do that?
britt 2:22 am
(2:22:12 AM): simple, just be like... hey want to do -blankblank- with me sometime?
saigoto 2:22 am
(2:22:31 AM): not sure if I can really take her anywhere since my parents are keeping me on a tight leash now
(2:22:38 AM): >.>
(2:23:11 AM): not sure what I should do in this situation
britt 2:23 am
(2:23:58 AM): they would let you even for a little?
(2:23:58 AM): Dx
saigoto 2:24 am
(2:24:22 AM): they kinda ease up after a while
(2:24:34 AM): like when I went to your house last week
(2:24:38 AM): they didn't mind
(2:24:52 AM): but the movies would probably be out of the question
(2:25:12 AM): especially since I'd need someone to give me a ride there and back
britt 2:25 am
(2:25:38 AM): right
(2:25:38 AM): Dx
(2:25:50 AM): license akil!
(2:25:54 AM): liiiiicenseeeee
saigoto 2:25 am
(2:25:58 AM): I know!
(2:26:07 AM): but I won't have a car even if I did
(2:26:17 AM): since we can only really afford one
(2:26:23 AM): I'd hae to buy one myself
(2:26:44 AM): X_X
(2:26:49 AM): *have
britt 2:27 am
(2:27:05 AM): bleh!
(2:27:15 AM): the best one you can find is for about 4000
(2:27:17 AM): O-:
(2:27:19 AM): i would know
saigoto 2:28 am
(2:28:00 AM): I might just go ahead and ask her in this situation
britt 2:28 am
(2:28:09 AM): Go!
(2:28:09 AM): =D
saigoto 2:28 am
(2:28:20 AM): -__-
(2:28:23 AM): idk where and whenb
(2:28:40 AM): there is also other stuff to think about
britt 2:29 am
(2:29:21 AM): you can do it akil!
(2:29:21 AM): (-:
(2:29:29 AM): what makes you wanna ask her out?
(2:29:30 AM): O-:
saigoto 2:30 am
(2:30:02 AM): hmmm
(2:30:27 AM): I'm starting to second guess myself
(2:30:53 AM): but she can hang with the guys
(2:31:46 AM): she's into video games
(2:32:01 AM): not overly femenine
britt 2:32 am
(2:32:51 AM): you talk to her alot?
(2:32:52 AM): (-:
(2:32:55 AM): dont second guess her
(2:32:56 AM): xD
saigoto 2:33 am
(2:33:04 AM): When I get the change I do
britt 2:33 am
(2:33:05 AM): the most part for asking a girl out is to get to know her better
(2:33:17 AM): and then, it's like, it doesn have to be instant boyfriend girlfriend
(2:33:20 AM): it can just be a date
(2:33:24 AM): and thenmore dates!
(2:33:31 AM): until it turns into boyfriend girlfriend
(2:33:33 AM): =D
saigoto 2:33 am
(2:33:47 AM): when you say ask her out
(2:33:51 AM): do you mean a date
(2:34:04 AM): or as in asking to go out with me?
britt 2:34 am
(2:34:12 AM): what do you mean?
(2:34:13 AM): O-:
(2:34:22 AM): which one?
saigoto 2:35 am
(2:35:11 AM): when you were talking about asking a girl out
(2:35:17 AM): what did you mean?
(2:35:28 AM): I don't know the whole process
(2:35:31 AM): XP
britt 2:35 am
(2:35:52 AM): well, in high school i think it's alright to go straight to bf and gf.
(2:35:59 AM): But in college, it's different a little
(2:36:10 AM): People cna go on dates
(2:36:13 AM): can*
(2:36:19 AM): like, you ask her on a date to the movies
(2:36:29 AM): and then if it goes well and you like eachother you go on more dates
(2:36:38 AM): but you're not completely exclusive!
(2:36:46 AM): for instance, you can date more then one person
(2:36:58 AM): the point of dates is to get to know the person
britt 2:37 am
(2:37:15 AM): then, when there's been a few dates, and you really like eachother and know eachother better
(2:37:38 AM): you go steady
(2:37:49 AM): which means you're bf and gf and you're the only people your seeing
(2:37:50 AM): O-:
(2:37:55 AM): did I explain that ok?
saigoto 2:38 am
(2:38:07 AM): yeah
(2:38:37 AM): but not sure if I really can date now without being able to drive now
(2:39:01 AM): I always thought dates came after
saigoto 2:39 am
(2:39:32 AM): but from what dylan is telling me it would be better for me to be bold with her
britt 2:39 am
(2:39:44 AM): meaning?
(2:39:45 AM): O-:
saigoto 2:40 am
(2:40:17 AM): I'm guessing just asking her out
(2:40:36 AM): I just don't know if it should be aa date though
britt 2:42 am
(2:42:07 AM): lol!
(2:42:11 AM): do what you feel akil
(2:42:13 AM): O-:
(2:42:23 AM): you know what she'd like better then me!
(2:42:24 AM): O-:
saigoto 2:42 am
(2:42:41 AM): I guess
(2:43:03 AM): meh, I'll see how things turn out
(2:43:16 AM): I'll see what dylan has to say
britt 2:44 am
(2:44:56 AM): lmfao!
(2:45:02 AM): because dylans the dating master
(2:45:02 AM): xD
(2:45:13 AM): you want relationshipm advice from dyl!?
(2:45:14 AM): xD
(2:45:16 AM): jk jk!!!
(2:45:20 AM): omg I'm teasing him!
(2:45:21 AM): xP
saigoto 2:45 am
(2:45:24 AM): lmao
(2:45:26 AM): I know
(2:45:46 AM): but you'd think with someone with expertise
(2:45:56 AM): he'd have a better looking girlfriend
(2:46:15 AM): >.>
(2:46:19 AM): let me stop
britt 2:46 am
(2:46:27 AM): lmfao!
(2:46:28 AM): xD
saigoto 2:46 am
(2:46:35 AM): I love dylan
britt 2:46 am
(2:46:39 AM): I love him too
(2:46:39 AM): xD
saigoto 2:46 am
(2:46:43 AM): just don't like steph
britt 2:46 am
(2:46:44 AM): thats why we can tease him
(2:46:44 AM): xD
saigoto 2:46 am
(2:46:47 AM): lol
britt 2:46 am
(2:46:53 AM): yeaaaah thats a whole different story
(2:46:54 AM): xD
saigoto 2:47 am
(2:47:14 AM): lol
(2:47:45 AM): This might seem kinda sad but I've been watching some stuff on dating
(2:47:57 AM): to help boost my confidence
britt 2:48 am
(2:48:15 AM): thats not sad!
(2:48:16 AM): O-:
(2:48:32 AM): thats like... looking up stuff on how to be good at sex before hand. Or how to talk to someone
(2:48:34 AM): xD
(2:48:37 AM): we allll do it!
(2:48:38 AM): O-:
saigoto 2:48 am
(2:48:59 AM): just sems weird since most people I know don't do it
saigoto 2:49 am
(2:49:45 AM): *seems
(2:50:09 AM): but the stuff I was reading by this guy seemed good
(2:50:34 AM): I was gonna try some of the exercises he suggested
britt 2:50 am
(2:50:37 AM): dont do what? look things up?
saigoto 2:51 am
(2:51:04 AM): yeah
(2:51:23 AM): erik,dylan,john,jordan,marcus
britt 2:51 am
(2:51:32 AM): john totally does
(2:51:32 AM): xD
saigoto 2:51 am
(2:51:38 AM): really?
britt 2:51 am
(2:51:41 AM): and so does the rest of them, they wont admit it
saigoto 2:51 am
(2:51:43 AM): o.o
britt 2:51 am
(2:51:48 AM): Yeah!! he so does!!!
(2:51:50 AM): ask him!
(2:51:51 AM): really!
(2:51:58 AM): he likes when people go to him for advice
(2:52:10 AM): a long time ago he looked up how to french kiss
(2:52:18 AM): and then we shared webpages about it
(2:52:18 AM): xD
saigoto 2:52 am
(2:52:33 AM): wow
(2:52:48 AM): but I guess it's not as bad when you're already going out with someone
(2:53:18 AM): I still have to work on some basic stuff to build confidence
(2:53:29 AM): there were 3 things I was gonna try
britt 2:54 am
(2:54:03 AM): anything good?
(2:54:04 AM): O-:
(2:54:08 AM): i should look that up too
(2:54:09 AM): Dx
saigoto 2:54 am
(2:54:39 AM): the first was to go to a public place
(2:54:45 AM): and say hi to everyone you saw
(2:54:58 AM): to help get used to talking to people
(2:55:11 AM): which might be tough for me
britt 2:55 am
(2:55:25 AM): you could do it with a friend!
(2:55:26 AM): =D
saigoto 2:55 am
(2:55:32 AM): yeah
britt 2:55 am
(2:55:39 AM): and dont do it creepy like!
(2:55:40 AM): xP
saigoto 2:55 am
(2:55:41 AM): just need someone to do it with
(2:55:42 AM): lol
britt 2:55 am
(2:55:47 AM): like... Hi!
(2:55:50 AM): -turn away-
(2:55:52 AM): hi!
saigoto 2:55 am
(2:55:59 AM): I know
britt 2:56 am
(2:56:01 AM): people will think you have a mental issue
saigoto 2:56 am
(2:56:01 AM): XD
britt 2:56 am
(2:56:01 AM): xP
(2:56:02 AM): xD
saigoto 2:56 am
(2:56:16 AM): I'm just shy with approaching people
britt 2:56 am
(2:56:21 AM): you know?
(2:56:27 AM): getting a job could be good for that!
(2:56:31 AM): like, working around people!
(2:56:32 AM): O-:
(2:56:51 AM): sorry go on!
(2:56:51 AM): Dx
saigoto 2:56 am
(2:56:53 AM): I need to realize the world isn't a bad place and that people aren't always mean
britt 2:56 am
(2:56:54 AM): I am babbling
saigoto 2:56 am
(2:56:54 AM): lol
(2:56:58 AM): no problem
(2:57:15 AM): the second one was to make eye contact with people you see
(2:57:23 AM): and hold it until they break it
britt 2:57 am
(2:57:29 AM): i do that too much
(2:57:29 AM): Dx
saigoto 2:57 am
(2:57:32 AM): lol
(2:57:38 AM): but thats good
britt 2:57 am
(2:57:45 AM): I remember, Mr. Stel held eye contact forever!!!
(2:57:47 AM): remember?
(2:57:48 AM): O-:
saigoto 2:57 am
(2:57:52 AM): yeah!
britt 2:57 am
(2:57:58 AM): i felt like I was having a contest with him
(2:57:59 AM): xD
saigoto 2:58 am
(2:58:03 AM): XD
(2:58:13 AM): it was always weird
saigoto 2:58 am
(2:58:34 AM): but if someone isn't interested they'll break eye contact quickly
(2:58:49 AM): if they are, you can actually end up talking with them
britt 2:58 am
(2:58:54 AM): thats cool!
(2:58:59 AM): i didnt think about it like that!
(2:59:00 AM): O-:
saigoto 2:59 am
(2:59:04 AM): me neither
(2:59:10 AM): I wanna try it
(2:59:18 AM): but I wanna do it with someone
(2:59:37 AM): the guy also talked about fear of rejection
(2:59:53 AM): and how to get over it
britt 2:59 am
(2:59:59 AM): that would be awesome
(3:00:05 AM): I'm always afraid someone wont like me
(3:00:15 AM): i have a strong personality
(3:00:32 AM): and i dont want to scare people away with it. Dx
saigoto 3:00 am
(3:00:40 AM): well in the seminar they said if you get rejected
(3:00:48 AM): they're rejecting you're approach
britt 3:01 am
(3:01:00 AM): so whats that mean?
saigoto 3:01 am
(3:01:20 AM): meaning how you'd approach someone to maybe ask them out
(3:01:27 AM): if you just met them
(3:01:53 AM): they're more against how you're asking them out than not liking you
britt 3:02 am
(3:02:08 AM): oh, well that doesnt seem so bad
(3:02:17 AM): i hate when people look at you funny
(3:02:21 AM): how do you fix that?
(3:02:21 AM): Dx
saigoto 3:02 am
(3:02:25 AM): lol
(3:02:33 AM): confidence is doing what you want
saigoto 3:02 am
(3:02:40 AM): and not caring about what others think
(3:03:00 AM): thats why you have to build it upp and be comfortable with yourself
(3:03:10 AM): and realize that most pople
britt 3:03 am
(3:03:16 AM): can ou go from being shy to being more confident?
saigoto 3:03 am
(3:03:18 AM): *people don't care what you do
(3:03:28 AM): it's possible
britt 3:03 am
(3:03:32 AM): like, it's not a personality trait?
saigoto 3:03 am
(3:03:57 AM): being shy is kind of a personality trait
(3:04:06 AM): but it can be changed
britt 3:04 am
(3:04:07 AM): introvert!
(3:04:08 AM): right?
saigoto 3:04 am
(3:04:17 AM): introvert is more extreme
britt 3:04 am
(3:04:18 AM): so it's a conditioned responce
(3:04:31 AM): like, we learned to be that way
saigoto 3:04 am
(3:04:35 AM): yeah
saigoto 3:04 am
(3:04:46 AM): but thats just a habit that can be broken
(3:04:56 AM): or a way of thinking to be changed
britt 3:05 am
(3:05:13 AM): thats true!
(3:05:30 AM): I think we're more confident in ourselves then we were in like... 8-9th grade!
saigoto 3:05 am
(3:05:42 AM): definitely
(3:05:52 AM): thugh I still have a ways to go
(3:06:04 AM): you've come a long way though
britt 3:06 am
(3:06:08 AM): (-:
(3:06:09 AM): you think?
saigoto 3:06 am
(3:06:13 AM): yeah
britt 3:06 am
(3:06:13 AM): I can go further
(3:06:15 AM): xP
saigoto 3:06 am
(3:06:26 AM): you can always improve
britt 3:06 am
(3:06:33 AM): we all can right?
(3:06:33 AM): =D
saigoto 3:06 am
(3:06:43 AM): just so long s you don't get too cocky
saigoto 3:06 am
(3:06:58 AM): smile
britt 3:07 am
(3:07:03 AM): neeeeeeveeeeer
(3:07:03 AM): xD
(3:07:13 AM): I'mm too sweet for that!
(3:07:13 AM): =D
(3:07:21 AM): hehe -girly innocent laugh-
saigoto 3:07 am
(3:07:37 AM): lol
(3:07:45 AM): I'd better go to bed
(3:07:48 AM): it's 3!
britt 3:07 am
(3:07:48 AM): me too
(3:07:53 AM): i was just gonna say
(3:07:56 AM): xP
saigoto 3:07 am
(3:07:58 AM): lol
(3:08:11 AM): I wanna keep talking about this though!
britt 3:08 am
(3:08:21 AM): tomorrow?
(3:08:22 AM): O-:
saigoto 3:08 am
(3:08:23 AM): sure
britt 3:08 am
(3:08:28 AM): ok good!
(3:08:29 AM): O-:
(3:08:32 AM): I'll be on aim!
(3:08:33 AM): =D
(3:08:37 AM): or you can text me!
saigoto 3:08 am
(3:08:44 AM): alrighty then
britt 3:08 am
(3:08:51 AM): Night akil!
(3:08:52 AM): =D
saigoto 3:08 am
(3:08:56 AM): night britt
britt 3:08 am
(3:08:59 AM): see you in one month and 2 days!
(3:09:00 AM): O-:
(3:09:02 AM): <3
saigoto 3:09 am
(3:09:06 AM): lol
(3:09:13 AM): <3