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i saw this thing it was a book and it said read this book to discover the truth and secret about love!!!!
so i thought too myself .....if love is all supposed to be magical and supposed to have no meaning it just happend when did they come out with a book about it...
the book says a happy relationship means both user's must have a balanced mix of control.(since when do you use the word user's when talking about love? it doesnt really make sense.)
ita kinda stupid cause i talked too this lady about love once and she didnt use the word users she told me some stuff completly opposite of the book and it worked.
so i kinda thought again why is it now a days people buy books for problems also video tapes,dvd's,cd's,(love)cruises,and those retreats where every one is bitchy.
that must add up to alot of money spent and i think if it is true money is one of the biggest causes of bad relationships...another thing is why do people fall in love if they are going to need a book two criuses and a dvd just so they can learn how too say i love you and thanks for that......kinda makes you think but also not all relationships are like that yeah a few problems arise but not big ones like that and why do people forget to say i love you..?isnt that the reason that they got together in the first place to hear those words from that person?
(i have a big mind with alot of qeustions so i shall post them up here hope some one finds them and can help in answering them. 3nodding .)