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“Deep Truths of encouragement”
It’s true I can’t break a heart, yet I still remain vonerable
It’s true it’s hard for me to lie; I did not say I cannot tell a lie because that would be a lie within itself.
It's ture I hate and cannot be the sorce of someone's pain.
{Love does overcome all things}
“Without out sadness would we appreciate happiness?”
What do you do when you feel hurt?
Do you go listen to music you can relate to?
Do you cut yourself?
Do you cry?
Do you wish to die?
[Words of wisdom]
People have many ways of dealing with pain, there are right ways and there are wrong ways; I’m going to give you some advice to ease your pain because I can’t stand to see another suffer.
Ok you feel hurt and lonely or some other pain, so you go listen to music you can relate to. “Note music is powerful stuff you should be careful what you listen to” For example, you are heartbroken so you listen to a song about heart break and you sing along, in doing this you are only wallowing in the pain and self pitty, the only reason it makes you feel better is because you feel/know someone else is going through the same thing, manifesting it never helped anyone only prolongs it! <this is the wrong way to deal with this. (You should listen to music that talks of getting through the hard times and encourages you to move on and keep fighting for what is right!)
Cutting a way get the pain inside eased by inflicting pain upon yourself from the outside,
Some people get so hurt they don’t feel much of anything anymore. <this Is the wrong way to deal with this. (If you absolutely feel like you have to cut try this method, draw red lines on yourself with red ink and for every line snap a rubber band in the general area. Scars are not pretty to look at they would only make me cry, if you do cut you only regret it later.) “It is biblical that you are not your own but the temple of god and defiling this temple would be a punishable sin, you may be sick often or unhappy.”
Crying is good, do not be ashamed of your tears they release all that is bottled up!
Sometimes it the pain gets so great you want to die, at this point you are not thinking clearly. You feel no one loves you, which is not true and killing yourself would be selfish and pointless. Peoples problem is that they only think of the current problem and they don’t look towards a brighter future your future is what you make based on your decisions. And the past you have to look at it at all angels, any unforgiveness makes you bitter and hurt. “No matter how much someone has wronged me I can find it in my heart to forgive them and I am the better person for it and am at peace.”
(So you may or may not believe in heaven and hell, and when you are at the point when you feel like you must kill yourself you run a 50/50 chance<”odds I don’t like” either it exist or it doesn’t; say you killed yourself you have a 50% chance of burring forever, or a 50% chance on nothing. But there is always room to impprove most people never think that far ahead, you don’t know how you life will be or turn out; if you did kill yourself and you were to be the next millionaire that would suck! Like I said you life is what YOU make it)
Some people get discouraged on how they look or appear, I’ve got this to say STOP IT! You are unique and you should be yourself, if everyone were the same the world would be a boring place.
Think for yourself break the chains of conformity and live life as best you can to the fullest you can, so in the end you can say “at lest I tried.”
Once I started being myself and followed my heart a whole new world opened up for me and I felt liberated!
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