What do you think of the word Divorce?
What does it mean to you?
Up until a couple of ays ago nothing of the sort flowed through my mind, I was content that me and my entire family was happy in their situations. There hasn't been many divorces in my family, well actually the only one I truly remember was with my uncle and aunt years ago when I was too young to understand what was going on.
Since then everything has been wonderful, there has been babies born, and a few weddings. However out of them all the only one I ever took part in was my Aunt and Uncle's wedding a couple of years back. I was the bridesmaid, and even though I had no choice but to wear a dress it was fun and exciting to be involved, be there on the night. Help my aunt get ready. It was a wonderful feeling to be there for her and to be prepared for anything, and then to stand with her as she made those vows.
I've never been much of a romantic.
I never really plan to get married.
Why?
Cos I'm too damn picky and I don't think anyone would want to share their life with someone like me. To put it lightly I'm...difficult. I have quite a nasty temper, I am impatient and really bitchy. I don't think I'd want to put any poor guy through that xd
And if I ever do get married, I'd never rush the decision.
Perhaps that's what my Aunt did...
Anyway my mum told me a couple of days back that they were having marriage problems and it hit me hard. I almost burst into tears right then, I couldn't even speak. I think what upsets me most was that they were good friends before they even got together. They stood for something that I myself wanted to find someday. Love with someone I could consider a friend.
Not to mention that I have the biggest crush ever on my best friend n_n;;
Strange to think that when I finally begin to think that perhaps love might head my way and that it isn't all that bad something like this happens.
Maybe they'll work it out.
Maybe they wont.
All I know is that things wont ever be the same again.
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My Uncle and Auntie are getting divorced in the near future, and my Uncles leaving her with three little girls. I know the reality of what can happen..
Don't look upon divorce upon a bad thing either, you see people getting divorced and still remaining best friends, the love may have just gone?
Again, I hope and pray things work out.