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Hmm...
<br>I fecking hate drama D:

/unrelated to below

So I guess this is an update on my personal situation..

I called my mom on Thursday so that I could talk to her about the whole situation of me wanting do change majors/transfer/move in with fiance, etc (see last journal). Needless to say, she was NOT happy about the idea of me switching from the college Im at to a technical school. As I predicted, she said that if I did what I wanted, I would *never* get the same chance again, and that a 4 year degree where im at is better, and blah blah~ She couldnt understand that I was saying to her I was unhappy. I didnt exactly pick the greatest time to talk to her either ^^; She had just gotten off of work (17hrs) and hadnt eaten, so.. but yeah. Then my stepdad decided to chip in his 2 cents. Whatever. Im only interested in what my mom thinks. Lots of crying and discussion later, my mom says she needs to eat and take a nap.

I was not in a very good mood at that point. .__. So I called my dad ;D As I knew, he supports me. He says that I should follow my heart and what makes me happy. Also, that a person's first instinct is usually right. He knows all my mom's guilt trip tactics, so it was easy relating XD He bascially calmed me down and such and I ended up talking to him for 3 1/2 hours o_o I love my dad <3 I can pretty much talk to him about anything. He's as nonjudgemental as possible, and treats me like an adult, which I appreciate.


On to today.. I didnt really know what to expect from today, seeing as I'd be going home. Turns out that it wasnt that bad. My mom and stepdad still want me home and still try to drop hints and carefully tell me that I should stick around, just Im just like "uh huh..yeah..ok" I told my mom "You know Im going anyway, right?" XD So she asked me how I'd be providing for myself financially, (excluding the fact that she had JUST told me she'd be depositing my dad's child support money in my account). And I said, uh, "I only have my phone bill and I have money? o_o" She was all.."where are you going to stay?" and I was like >____> <______< "with Mike" and she was all >____> O_____O

XDD <3

Mike and I are happy. His mom isnt really rejecting or supporting the idea. It's basically "youre an adult now, it's your descision" So yay. Im off in July 06~ I want to leave so much earlier..but I dont think that's possible DX Oh well, you give and take.


~Yuzi







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Cassidy Peterson
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commentCommented on: Sat Oct 15, 2005 @ 07:49pm
Eeee, good luck Yuzi heart


commentCommented on: Sat Oct 15, 2005 @ 09:47pm
Congratz on making the decission you thougt was right. 3nodding Though July '06 is a long ways away.



Druki
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Yuzi_K
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commentCommented on: Sun Oct 16, 2005 @ 06:37am
Thanks Cassi heart

Druki: Yeah I know crying


commentCommented on: Fri Nov 04, 2005 @ 06:08am
Follow your heart! I believe my dad (or some person) once said something along the lines of: "Getting a job you enjoy is better than getting a job that you hate that pays twice as much!" or something....

Whatever, he's 50-something years old and he's had a busy life... I respect him for that. 3nodding

Oh right... you. sweatdrop

Good luck!



Shady Tradesman
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EccoXile
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commentCommented on: Tue Dec 20, 2005 @ 03:48am
Ahhs! THis happened a long time ago and Ididn't notice =S
Yay that everything went well for ya, and yay to happiness. heart


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