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watching porn in relationships
the excuse that men need to watch porn for sexual release is such bullshit. don't get me wrong, i'm all for masturbation. but why does it supposedly become inferior if a man doesn't have something to look at? that's called... A LACK OF IMAGINATION. if you want something to look at, look at the woman you're with!

the excuse that men watch porn because they want "sexual variety" is perhaps the biggest bullshit excuse. if you're still looking around, WHY ARE YOU IN A ******** RELATIONSHIP??????

if your partner is modest and unwilling to do certain sexual acts with you, then FIND A NEW PARTNER. if you're not being fulfilled by your current partner, then ********. MOVE. ON. objectifying women in porn so you can put your lady on a pedestal should never be considered the solution.

however, if your lady IS fulfilling most of your desires, yet ONE DAY OF THE ******** WEEK she isn't willing to have sex with you because she's tired/whatever.. ******** suck it up and stop being so selfish. your woman deserves better than for you to result to jacking off to random chicks in porn.

and this attitude that it's "normal" for a man in a satisfied relationship to masturbate to porn is exactly the kind of attitude that perpetuates the habit. if you're in a satisfied relationship, why do you need porn? if you're in a relationship, male OR FEMALE, it is unacceptable to masturbate to porn.






User Comments: [4]
Yojimbo2
Community Member





Sun Jun 17, 2012 @ 03:25am


Lack of imagination? Sorry you are completely wrong on this. Nothing wrong with entertaining a little fantasy as long as you do not breach the boundaries of your relationship, as set up by both partners. You think all relationships are the same? If you don't want YOUR man to look at porn then just tell him but don't apply your narrow minded view to all men and women.

In short, calm the F down.


Darknessninjax
Community Member





Sun Jun 24, 2012 @ 08:39am


i agree with you, when in a relationship i think its wrong to watch porn

when ever i am with a woman i never watch porn so its been years since i have ever watched any porn xD


Bowsette
Community Member





Fri Jun 29, 2012 @ 01:36pm


I agree with both the comments, and you.

As I said in another post earlier. Some relationships look at these things to help stimulate themselves.

However, I do agree that men, or women should not be "getting off" to other people when they are with someone. Though it entirely depends on the rules of the relationships. I know some people who do swinger relationships, and hook up with other couples for mass "get together"s

In short, a responsible relationship should not be together, and probably won't be stable if either partner is eyeing other people for sexual release. It's partly the reason I broke up with my ex.

Though, last but not least. It is okay to masturbate while in a relationship because! Chances are one or the other will often be more horny. If that is the case, one should stimulate the other without sexual contact if one is not turned on. Or they can go and view porn, but in a stable relationship. Replace said attractive role with your own partner in said situation when it comes to porn.


LiquidTD
Community Member





Sun Apr 14, 2013 @ 07:37am


Did this happen with you?


User Comments: [4]
 
 
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