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I thought this guy really liked me. We seemed to have a lot in common. But when he asked me how far i had gotten, I told him i'd only allow a little bit of touching, the usual rubbing of the side or whatever. But after I told him that he seemed to treat me completly different. I asked him if we could just agree to disagree. He said fine but he still treat me differently. I'm not gonna change my ways just because of one guy. I was raised the way I am. I don't want to lose a friendship over that. I don't agree with people being gay or les, but i have gay and les friends. I don't partisipate with them, but I still am friends with them and care for them as friends. Many of my friends are non-virgens. I don't care about that either. It's their choise. But my choise is to save my virginity for my husband. So i won't be called a slut a whore a b***h a whatever else people call others. So i won't be left alone after sex. So i won't be stuck caring for a baby on my own. I know some people don't like what I want to do, but i'm not going to change it. Many people i know accept this and don't try to change how i feel about certain things. We just put our disagreements behind us and find some common ground again. I'm glad I have such good friends who will stand by me. Thank you and I hope that the person who hurt me earlier..reads this and understand why I won't change. Thanks.
~Tasha.