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Stand On Mountains
Virtue alone is nobility.
Week .... whatever.
Quote: "I feel white with apathy. Or grey with apathy. I really don't care which color it is anymore..."
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I've quit pretending like I'm actually keeping up with these prompts. XD Fortunately, this one looked interesting, so I'll reply to it.
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Quote:
If you had to choose between the most loved person in your family or your best friend, who would you choose? Why?


Honestly, I don't have a most loved person in my family. I must have been born with every anti-family gene in history, because I do not get along with anyone. I hate my grandparents. My aunts don't know me, but pretend to fight over being "Number One Aunt Of The Year". My uncles are even more estranged from me than anyone else. They try to be supportive in the way that it's clear they are not related to me. My cousins are such snobby brats that I cannot stand them for more than 10 minutes at a time. And my parents don't know me at all. My dad is an a*****e who couldn't care about anything but getting his next ********. My mom just ignores me by throwing herself into her work. Most of the time, she doesn't even come home until ten o'clock at night. And then it's right to bed.

You ask who I would choose? Of course, I'd choose my best friend. That is. . . if I still had a best friend. . . ? It's confusing to me still if I even know who my best friend is any more. Sometimes, I think it's J.M.. Othertimes, I feel so disconnected with her because she doesn't even live in the same city that I do. I've got friends, and I consider myself close with each of them. But I wouldn't say that they're my best friend.


I wouldn't choose my family, and I have no best friend.


How sad.






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Rayinte
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commentCommented on: Thu Mar 08, 2007 @ 04:59pm
I couldn't ever pick a singular "best friend" ... I'm just glad I'm at the point where I have "Best friend for <situation>," like a best friend for hanging out with, a best friend for emotional support, a best friend for idle conversation, best coworker friend... xd

I always thought it was kind of silly to prioritize and "rank" friends, because for the most part I'm friends with different people for different reasons. I share different interests with all of them.

Don't go "I have no best friend;" instead be glad that you have several such close friends that you couldn't ever pick one over another.


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