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Just found out im not japanese

Ok im real sad i just found out tat im not japanese and im adopted and my birth parents are my aunt and uncle tat treat me like crap. They came and told me everything.
Both of them have been tring to have kids for 9 years, and all they wanted was a healthy baby. Well they kinda got that wish they did have a baby but i was few weeks premature i mean premature such as my lungs weren't devloped i guess thats how i got my lung problems. And they jsut couldnt have a baby i was like an accident baby. and My dad sis thought we can't keep her because they were close to losing the house and other stuff, so they called my dad and told him we just had a baby girl and we cant keep her so do u want her. my dad and mom said yes. So i was adopted.
And 16 years later i get the bomb. Both of them want me bak home. i mean i don't know wat to do.
They said were sorry how we treated you while u were staying with us . We want you bak, hell they even said were going to fight to get you bak. We don't care quoting my aunt "I SPENT 36 HOURS IN THE HOSPITAL GIVING YOU A CHANCE AT LIFE"
i dont know wat to do. Im debating who am i goin to live with.

Posted by: youngemogothgirl459 Fri Aug 14, 2009 @ 10:13pm

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MADARA UCHIHA 911
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Commented on: Fri Aug 14, 2009 @ 11:28pm


	just follow ur heart and i they didnt want u then,then y the hell should they have u now they made their decision 16 years ago and now they want u now i dont think they deserve u hell they didnt even raise u

Commented on: Fri Aug 14, 2009 @ 11:52pm


	Sachi, all I have to say is, DO NOT GO WITH THEM. The way they've been treating you now is just unacceptable. They lost their chance to be parents to you back then. Why give them that chance now?

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Commented on: Sat Aug 15, 2009 @ 01:10am


	sachi dont do it jus tthink 1 year living with them and u were almost sucialdal dont it dont live them stay with ur birth parents the ones who raised u.

Commented on: Mon Aug 17, 2009 @ 01:15am


	Awww... how very sad, nee~san; especially the fact that you was born as a premature baby & I feel so sorry hearing all of that. crying cry sad 3nodding =T.T= 3nodding sad cry crying I too have that same kind of problem with my real dad {in fact, he may have been my mom's 2nd boyfriend back in the 80s, he was my mom's favorite boyfriend (out of the 3 guys she'd been with in her entire life) & my mom & my "so~called" dad was going to get married around my birth time until someone [probably my dad's mammy (which she deals with witchcraft)] messed him up & made him very crazy for the rest of his life}; anyway, something was definitely wrong with him & while I was still in my mom's stomach, my dad was about to hit my mom's stomach with a cast~iron chair & if that did happen, then my mom would be very hurt or a bit worse than that & then I would die in my mom's belly & considered to be existed in this here Earth; but get this, as crazy as he & his family (especially that old hag mom of his) is, they all try to see me as soon as I'd turned 13 on October 3rd, 1999 & what's even A LOT stupider is that they wanted me to move in with them as soon as I turned 18 back in 2004 & want to care about me after all of that time that they didn't give a gosh darn about me during my childhood & my teenhood & then they're try to find me about a few weeks ago [although, my mom warned me about them & what raggedy truck they was driving & if they did stopped me, tell them that I don't want to have anything to do with them & try my best not to start a violent fight with them (as much as I hate them; but probably not hate~hate my dad)]... so anyway, all I'm trying to say is that when it comes to living with someone as your family members, it's really best to live with the ones who'd been raising you & caring about you for over the years, nee~san; just like my mom's 3rd boyfriend (still together ever since about 1988 or 1989; I was a toddler then); he may had been treating me like crap until he probably realized that I can beat the demons out of him & he's getting old [since I'm not his child, but is the dad of my 2 little sisters; also deals with witchcraft, but only my older brother, my grandmother, & I knew about it because our predictions (especially our grandma's predictions) were right for the fact that my grandma had a dream about 4 guys (including my stepdad a. k. a. my mom's 3rd boyfriend) was trying to come to my grandma's house to kill her & that prediction came true about a few days later (though this was about almost 20 years ago); so my grandma didn't put up with that & she was saved all thanks to God for giving her the predictions that she was about to be attacked]... ...sorry about that, I'm trying to tell you my advice along with what I'd been through that's quite similar to yours; but anyway, even though my stepdad's been treating me like crap, but at least he's been caring about me as if he was my real dad for over the years along with my mom & especially my grandma (on my mom's side), I'm still on his side WAY lot more than my biological dad's side & forget about the ones who doesn't even care about me throughout my life; so, my advice to you is that it's pretty much best for you to live with the ones who'd been caring for you all your life & for the fact that there's a stronger family connection yet trustworthiness between you & the ones who loved and raised you; and as for your aunt and your uncle; why should you live with them & they wasn't in part of your life as much as those individuals who'd cared much about you; but in my opinion, it's really up to you whether should you hate them as much or like them as part of your family members or whatever; but when it comes to living with whom; it's just best not to live with your aunt and uncle since they'd been treating you like crap & haven't even care much about you in your life... now sure they'd probably gave you a chance at life and all; but after all of that time that they didn't even care much about you as the ones who'd raised you did, why even bother trying to live with them & things could end up going to the wrong path of your lifestyle if you were living with them (just saying to try to make a point, nee~san). idea heart 4laugh 3nodding sweatdrop =^_^= sweatdrop 3nodding 4laugh heart idea THE HELL WITH THIS st!!!!!!!!!! evil =>_<= evil **** THOSE WHO'D BEEN TREATED ME LIKE TOTAL st OVER THE YEARS, THAT'S FOR ALL OF U (ESPECIALLY IF YOU USED TO BE MY FRIEND BUT UNFRIENDED ME AT LEAST ONCE); but for those who are still cool with me and are yet STILL my friends, thanks for being so kind to me all this time; hope we be friends 4ever!=^__^=

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