• It can be said in so many ways, over, and over again but, just because the signs are clear, does not mean that they can accept it. Love, Lurve, its all the same message again, even if they completely understand it, does not mean that they care. Even with the fear of rejection, and suffering in the possible near future, still pushing forward slowly but surely. obsession can develop in some cases, trying to find anyway to be possibly closer to them or watch and listen from a distance. Pain is a risk, and even though taking it is fruitless at first, just thinking about them helps push through the sorrow. A fruitless effort, yet still, loving them makes it seem all of your work will come forward with a bang.